I have now realised, a bit late in life, that when the cards are down, friends or people you think you can rely on will leave you in the lurch.
They will always have a good excuse for it, 'thought you had moved on' is a good response, but no effort made to support, but always willing to take whatever you have on offer.
From now on its me and my family, sorry to my 'friends' but you can go **** yourselves.
